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THE PERFECT REVIEW… Wow Wow Wow

We are excited to share the inspiring review below with you. While we often receive kind words, this review truly stands out, highlighting our dedicated staff and the journey the couple experienced with us—from their initial visit to their final goodnight on their wedding day. 

At Southend, our team works tirelessly to make a meaningful impact on every couple we meet. We strive to create unforgettable moments on their special day. Our commitment to going above and beyond sets us apart from other venues, fueled by genuine delight and excitement. 

This review captures the essence of our mission, and we couldn’t be more grateful for this incredible feedback!

 

Hello Kelly and the whole Southend Barns team,

Wow, wow, and wow! Where do we begin to even put into words how incredible you guys were for our wedding? It truly was the day of our dreams, and we are SO pleased we found you and chose Southend Barns to host our wedding day.

From the moment we stepped in to view the venue, we fell in love. It had such a calming feel. Everything was clean and high-quality and stayed consistent throughout every visit. We enjoyed the love-at-first-sight open evening and the tasting evening, which felt like we were at a wedding. We loved visiting for the wedding fair, where we found some of our suppliers and our planning meeting with the truffles!

Kelly – Our on the day, angel! Nothing was too much trouble, and you ensured the day ran seamlessly without us needing to do a thing; after months of preparation and crafting, this was so appreciated as it meant we could sit back and enjoy the day to its fullest! We both instantly felt in safe hands when we met and nothing was too much trouble – even some of our more quirky ideas and TikToks! You are so good at what you do, and we are so grateful for everything you did for us.

Sophie, Thank you so much for looking after us from the love at first sight evening, booking our wedding, nailing down all the details, and up until our day—you made us feel instantly welcome and at ease. From start to finish, you have been so lovely, and we are so grateful for all your help in the run-up to our wedding!

Olivia, Thank you for getting me down the aisle and making sure everything ran smoothly for the ceremony. You were so calming and lovely!

All of the team on the day, from the bar staff, waiting staff, Roots chefs, gardeners and cleaners, made sure our guests and us were well fed and watered, and every single guest commented on how incredible the food was, how beautiful the barns and grounds were! The Roots team are total artists when it comes to food. Every single bite was delightful, from the delicious canapes (that our lovely lady – with the lovely eyeliner flicks made sure we got to enjoy – we didn’t catch her name, but a special mention to her for being so sweet), to the incredible homemade focaccia and butter, delicious 3-course dinner (the sticky toffee pudding was STUNNING!) and our fantastic smores station and evening bacon baps and chips. If you opened up a Roots restaurant, we’d be first in the queue to visit!

The day ran perfectly. Everything was perfect, and we didn’t need to worry about anything. I genuinely felt so relaxed and enjoyed every moment. You guys are very good at what you do, and we will recommend you to everyone and anyone (especially because we want to come back to weddings at Southend Barns as much as possible!).

We are so grateful to you all, Kelly, Sophie, Olivia, and the whole team at Southend Barns, for making our dreams come true and helping us have the day of our lives – not only for us but also for all our friends and family. It was so special in every way, and the amount of detail that goes into the behind the scenes of the venue is second to none; everyone who is part of this venue should be so proud to play such a part in such a milestone moment in couples lives, we are so thankful to you all, and we’ll never forget our dream wedding day!

S&J

Photos; Joanna Cleeve Photography 

Featured in Your Sussex Wedding Magazine

Gemma and Matthew's wedding celebration

Gemma and Matthew’s slice of summer paradise has been featured in Your Sussex Wedding Magazine!

The couple’s flower filled wedding was a joy to behold with every inch of our Dairy and Threshing Barns adorned with incredible floral displays and soft pink touches. This lovely pair didn’t let a spot of rain bother them, using every part of our venue to great effect and filling their day with glorious steel drums, fireworks, garden games, a delicious BBQ and more. The couple even hired local oil painter Steve Wiltshire to capture their big day on canvas!

Take a closer look at Gemma and Matthew’s beautiful wedding day here

Gemma and Matthew's wedding featured in Your Sussex Wedding magazine

Gemma and Matthew's wedding featured in Your Sussex Wedding magazine

Gemma and Matthew's wedding featured in Your Sussex Wedding magazine

Gemma and Matthew's wedding featured in Your Sussex Wedding magazine

Featured in Your Sussex Wedding Magazine

Zoe and Nick on their wedding day

Zoe and Nick’s deliciously dark Southend Barns wedding has been featured in Your Sussex Wedding Magazine.

Daringly different, Zoe and Nick’s wedding channelled all the magic of Tim Burton’s gothic world. A feast for the senses, the couple embraced the director’s quirky charm to create a luxurious wedding day filled with laughter and personality.

Every inch of our beautiful venue was considered as they wove their fairy tale day with a mix of personal touches and wedding day opulence. From a star-lit canopy across the Threshing Barn’s 220-year-old beams to a vibrant floral arch complete with ’til death’ signage, and the spookily elegant black and white tablescape which would have made Jack Skellington himself proud.

Click here to read all about Zoe and Nick’s incredible wedding day

Zoe and Nick's gothic romance feature in Sussex Wedding magazine feature

Zoe and Nick's wedding magazine feature

Zoe and Nick's wedding magazine feature

Zoe and Nick's wedding magazine feature

Lucy and Jon Featured on Rock My Wedding

Lucy & Jon wedding

Last year Lucy and Jon danced into married life amid friends and family at our stunning West Sussex wedding venue. The couple’s big day oozed effortless charm and understated style, and we were delighted to see their Southend Barns wedding day featured on Rock My Wedding recently!

From the heartfelt ring warming ceremony to Lucy’s duo of slip style wedding dresses, everything about Lucy and Jon’s special day was authentic and beautiful.

Making the most of the romantic October landscape, the couple chose a minimalist palette of crisp white and tonal olive green. Tables were illuminated by the warm glow of candlelight and cascades of fairy lights were suspended from our Threshing Barn’s 200-year-old beams. Bridesmaids glistened in olive silk slip dresses, complementing the swathes of seasonal foliage peppered with milk white flowers, which drew the muted greens of our surrounding landscaped gardens in.

The whole day was a treat for the senses, from the joyful live music, dedicated cocktail hour and angular, pared back wedding cake, right down to the scent of Diptyque’s Mimosa hanging in the air, every last detail was considered.

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Photo credit: Jasmine Andrews Photography

Click here to take a look at Iain and Henry’s wedding which was also featured on Rock My Wedding recently.

Featured on Coco Wedding Venues

Wedding champagne

Full of charm and a touch of old school glamour, we were delighted to see Bronwyn and Jamie’s beautiful wedding day featured on Coco Wedding Venues recently.

From the incredible champagne tower and cascades of fairy lights draped from our 200-year-old beams to the artful greenery tablescape and the couple’s ‘bride’ and ‘groom’ dancing trainers, the day was filled with lots of love and beautiful luxe touches.

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Featured in Your Sussex Wedding Magazine

Castle wedding (credit: Adorlee)

We were so excited to see Ben and Emma’s beautiful wedding featured in a four-page spread in the September issue of Your Sussex Wedding magazine.

Full of tender moments and incredible floral displays, their special day had beauty, love and happiness at every turn. From the flowers and foliage adorning every part of our barns to Emma’s exquisite Atelier Pronovias day and night bridal outfits and the couple’s faithful hound ring bearers, Emma and Ben injected charm and personality into every detail of their big day.

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Photography: Adorlee Weddings

Featured on Rock My Wedding

Wedding couple (credit: Teri V Photography)

Original, personal and oh-so-beautiful, we were delighted to see Iain and Henry’s wedding featured on Rock My Wedding recently!

The couple opted for a stunning earthy colour scheme paired with luscious foliage and lots of wooden elements. From the paper-flower buttonholes and stylish his and his three-piece woollen suits, to their fun, yet sophisticated take on film and television themed tablescapes, every element of this beautiful celebration was given the same thoughtful attention to detail.

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Photography: Teri V Photography

Our 2021 Round Up…

From the intimate wedding ceremonies we were honoured to be a part of in spring to the joy of welcoming dancing back to our Threshing Barn in the summer, 2021 has by no means been an ordinary year, but still one that has been filled with an extraordinary amount of love.

Finding creative ways to ensure couples could have a beautiful wedding whilst adhering to the changing restrictions surrounding the pandemic has been at the centre of everything our team has done this year. When parties were prohibited, our team of chefs worked round the clock to deliver incredible fine dining focused receptions including five course feasts, complete with carefully curated wine selections and dreamy alfresco dining options. As rules gradually relaxed, our incredible team constantly adapted, all the time ensuring each wedding flowed beautifully, never felt limited and that each couple had the day they deserved.

Photo by Ruby Roux Photography

Photo by Ruby Roux Photography

2021 has also been a year of new and exciting developments here at Southend Barns. To help make wedding planning as stress free as possible we introduced our stunning new styling packages, with options ranging from trendy Boho Blush and classic Elegant Ivory to lush and natural Wild & Green and the glamourous Champagne Rose.

Photo by Hana Venn

Photo by Hana Venn

In August we were excited to open our new shepherd’s hut, Mama Lou. Set in our alpaca’s grazing field with a festoon-lit private pathway to the door, Mama Lou gives guests all they need for a relaxing and luxury break in a gorgeously unique setting. We are delighted to have already had lots of couples staying in the shepherd’s hut and the feedback has been wonderful.

Photo by Ruby Roux Photography

Photo by Ruby Roux Photography

It wouldn’t be a Southend Barns end of year round up without a mention of some of the fabulous weddings we have been privileged to be a part of. From Henry and Iain’s memorable film themed wedding, to Jamie and Bronwyn’s gorgeously decadent day with impressive champagne tower and his and hers cocktails. We have been lucky to be a part of so many beautiful weddings this year and with some exciting plans on the horizon for our tenth year including a new website, reimagined terrace bar and outside kitchen, we can’t wait to see what 2022 has in store!





Photos by:
Teri V Photography
Hana Venn Photography
Martin Beard Photography

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